Look, there are a lot of reasons people have for teaching their own kids. Many of them are good and compelling. But, for me, most have faded over time. I see my kids growing up and I think, They were always going to be OK.
And, anyway, homeschooling is hard and can suck the life out of a person, especially a person who used to carry a planner. Our warm educational fuzzies have grown a little threadbare during these middle years, and the tender platitudes that used to spur me on now find me with my fingers in my ears and, you know, maybe rocking in my bathroom.
But, so help me, there is one thing that hasn’t changed–and that is my need to go slow through this life. It turns out that a poet crawled into my head and, having rattled around there, came back and wrote a poem that exactly describes my Actual Real Reason for doing this life the way I do.
To wit:
Leisure
by William Henry Davies
What is this life if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare?
No time to stand beneath the boughs
And stare as long as sheep or cows.
No time to see, when woods we pass,
Where squirrels hide their nuts in grass.
No time to see, in broad daylight,
Streams full of stars, like skies at night.
No time to turn at Beauty’s glance,
And watch her feet, how they can dance.
No time to wait till her mouth can
Enrich that smile her eyes began.
A poor life this is if, full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare.
That’s my reason, folks. What’s yours?
That’s my reason, too. And you are great at this job. I love you.
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I just wanna be with my kids…
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Great article! That’s why we do it too. I kept waiting for life to slow down but there always a rush to be somewhere. These days, we can stay in our PJs on the couch all day if we choose to, with nothing to do and nowhere to go. Happy days.
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I want the boys to enjoy childhood, not to grow up as quickly as possible. More selfishly, I want to be in as many of their happy memories as possible!
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Great poem!
Homeschooling strengthens closeness of the family, and parents’ relationships to children are made deeper – Parents are able to watch their children grow.
Anne
http://www.HomeschoolingOption.com/
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